What have you been up to? Busy week? Hope you were able to rest this weekend. It's back to work this week. It's the beginning of a new week so we hope and pray for a fresh start. Right, let's get to today's topic. This one goes out to our fellas;
Scenario 1:
Smith goes out with his girlfriend to a function [occasion], at the function Smith meets another lady who he starts a conversation with. Smith ignores his girlfriend because he is talking to this other lady.
Scenario 2:
George constantly beats his fiancée every time he's upset.
Scenario 3:
Marvin's wife cooks his meals, does his laundry and keeps the house clean. Marvin never says 'thank you'. He treats his wife more like a slave than a companion.
What do you think of these three scenarios? Respect is the willingness to show consideration or appreciation. For now she would be focusing on our fellas in this episode. For a relationship to exist there must be two parties involved. Both parties have to [aside all other things] respect each other. As we are well aware, not all guys respect their partners- your partner being your girlfriend, fiancée or wife. The saying is, "the way a guy treats his mother is the way he would treat his wife"; Or girlfriend as the case maybe. Every lady deserves some form of respect from her man. She wouldn't be telling you how to show your partner you appreciate her, that's up to you fellas to decide. But it goes a long way to describe your personality when you appreciate your lady. In denotative meaning, respect is an attitude of admiration or esteem. Showing respect to your partner implies that, not only do you appreciate her, but you appreciate your relationship with her and you're willing to make your relationship work. To respect someone is to care, without respect you don't have a relationship.
To love is to respect, to respect is to hold your companion- your ladies in high esteem. Arnold H. Glasow said "the respect of those you respect is worth more than the applause of the multitude". Reflect on this Señor- let your actions speak louder than your words. Take care. Hasta luego!
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It is such a blessing to read your blog the issues that you bring up are very interresting and every topics i read made me reflect on life and encouraged me. Keep on reaching out to those in need because words are powerful. God has really placed something special in you i'm so happy to see that you are not barring your potential but that you ar letting it shine so people can see. Reading about respect made me think that i should make sure that i am getting the proper respect and i know i need to send some of my men freinds to read this topic. May God bless you (Mariam)
Thank you very much. It's well appreciated. Especially to knw dat people are being inspired thru this medium. Thank you for droppin' by and hope to see u around.
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