Thought about you some few days ago, felt as if she offended you by not writing...Listening to "Ekundayo" by TY Bello, and became motivated to write. It is true not having as much readers could sometimes make a blogger think twice. Thinking, without readers, there's no use for the blog. However, still appreciative of those who take the time to come around and hope to God it makes a difference. Thought about writing about relationships, marriage and even ask questions and talk about ladies who keep going back to abusive relationships. But it doesn't feel right as of yet. Believe everything in life happens in good timing. Not blogging when you feel you are suppose to, or not blogging at the usual time (you blog), creates a feeling in you...as if you let someone down, or like committing an offense. Although it's different this time because you are fully aware of this act, but one doesn't 'retrace' one's steps.
So was writing a paper this week about multiculturalism for one of her Sociology classes and came across a quote by Malcolm X, which seems pretty interesting. Using a cup of coffee to explain the concept of multiculturalism and its significance. Pretty neat eh? Below is the quote by someone we all remember (controversial...you may say)! Writing this now reminds one of Spike Lee's 'Malcolm X'(s') film. Anyhuu...leaving you with the quote for this week:
"It's just like when you've got some coffee that's too black, which means it's too strong. What do you do? You integrate it with cream, you make it weak. But if you pour too much cream in it, you wouldn't even know you ever had coffee. It used to be hot, it becomes cool. It used to be strong, it becomes weak. It used to wake you up, now it puts you to sleep."
Moral: Do everything in moderation.
Have a blast in this coming week. Ciao!
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
BARACK HUSSEIN OBAMA- The 44th Presidential Elect!
So just had to blog earlier this week. With November 4th (2008 obviously) being a very historic day in the United States! Am sure we all remember where we were when Obama was elected as being the 44TH PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES. Some of us couldn't laugh or cry, others cried, laughed and screamed. Finally Martin Luther King's dream had come true. The world stands to witness this victory. And as Obama puts it, it's we (the voters), the people that own this victory. In his words; "Change has come to America". Yes we can, is now as of November 4th 2008...YES WE HAVE!
Our prayer is God would give him the strength to lead his people. Like Obama said "it might not be done in 1yr or in a term, slowly but surely we would get there."
And to top it all...his acceptance speech [which was *speechless*] and this whole event is something we all can learn from.
"This victory alone is not the change we seek- it is only the chance for us to make that change."
CONGRATULATIONS TO AMERICA'S 44TH PRESIDENTIAL ELECT...BARACK HUSSEIN OBAMA!
As we all know: "Rosa Parks sat so Martin Luther King could walk, Martin walked so that Barack Obama could run, Obama is running so that our children can fly." Keep the flag flying people.
This victory tells us that; when we dream we should dream BIG, don't give up, it would take a lot of hard work, but it's all worth it. YES YOU CAN, YES WE HAVE!
Adios!
Our prayer is God would give him the strength to lead his people. Like Obama said "it might not be done in 1yr or in a term, slowly but surely we would get there."
And to top it all...his acceptance speech [which was *speechless*] and this whole event is something we all can learn from.
"This victory alone is not the change we seek- it is only the chance for us to make that change."
CONGRATULATIONS TO AMERICA'S 44TH PRESIDENTIAL ELECT...BARACK HUSSEIN OBAMA!
As we all know: "Rosa Parks sat so Martin Luther King could walk, Martin walked so that Barack Obama could run, Obama is running so that our children can fly." Keep the flag flying people.
This victory tells us that; when we dream we should dream BIG, don't give up, it would take a lot of hard work, but it's all worth it. YES YOU CAN, YES WE HAVE!
Adios!
Sunday, November 2, 2008
5ive Categories of Wives...
Hope you aren't surprised at the title of this post...lol! Oh well, what can we say? This was inspired by someone in the film industry. And according to the person there are five categories of women. Would agree with the way these five categories were described. So here goes the list;
The categories are as follows:
1.) Double Dealers: They are neither here nor there. Not because they don't want to get married, but their ex-lovers won't let them. They answer to both their husbands and their concubines. Sometimes they treat their concubines better than they treat their husbands.
2.) Friends: They are friends to the husbands and at the same time to the concubines. They can have two husbands in their neighborhood.
3.) Elders- known as 'egbon'* (a.k.a The Controllers): They behave as if God has given them powers. They are very powerful and whatever they say musn't be changed. It's a case of 'yes' and 'amen', no questions asked! They give orders to their husbands and they don't see it as something bad. Even her mother-in-law dare not come pay them a visit. She'll throw out her property: After all, 'why does she have to come without any prior notice?' She won't like to see her husband's relations, but her husband will and must take care of the responsibilities of her own relations!
The above 3hree types are placed in the 'bad' categories.
4.) A Wife like a Mother: 'If a mother is talking to her child, if the child is sensible and responsible, he'll listen to his mother'. This is a wife that wants nothing but the best for her husband.
5.) A Wife like a Child: A wife who will advice her husband and, who will be very industrious.
*Note: 'egbon' is a yoruba word for someone older than you (i.e. senior).
Now, wouldn't be surprised if some people do not agree with these categories, bearing in mind it's based on a subjective view. But we would probably have people who agree with one or more of the above categories. It's been nice having you around. Stay safe and have a blast this new week! And a big thank you to the new readers who have stopped by. Gracias!
The categories are as follows:
1.) Double Dealers: They are neither here nor there. Not because they don't want to get married, but their ex-lovers won't let them. They answer to both their husbands and their concubines. Sometimes they treat their concubines better than they treat their husbands.
2.) Friends: They are friends to the husbands and at the same time to the concubines. They can have two husbands in their neighborhood.
3.) Elders- known as 'egbon'* (a.k.a The Controllers): They behave as if God has given them powers. They are very powerful and whatever they say musn't be changed. It's a case of 'yes' and 'amen', no questions asked! They give orders to their husbands and they don't see it as something bad. Even her mother-in-law dare not come pay them a visit. She'll throw out her property: After all, 'why does she have to come without any prior notice?' She won't like to see her husband's relations, but her husband will and must take care of the responsibilities of her own relations!
The above 3hree types are placed in the 'bad' categories.
4.) A Wife like a Mother: 'If a mother is talking to her child, if the child is sensible and responsible, he'll listen to his mother'. This is a wife that wants nothing but the best for her husband.
5.) A Wife like a Child: A wife who will advice her husband and, who will be very industrious.
*Note: 'egbon' is a yoruba word for someone older than you (i.e. senior).
Now, wouldn't be surprised if some people do not agree with these categories, bearing in mind it's based on a subjective view. But we would probably have people who agree with one or more of the above categories. It's been nice having you around. Stay safe and have a blast this new week! And a big thank you to the new readers who have stopped by. Gracias!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Words of Wisdom...
Would go right to it...
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him- Let it go!
You might claim to be busy...but God is never too busy to take care of you. It might seem there isn't a way out, nevertheless, I want you to hold on because you are a living testimony. That is why after the trial comes the victory, and then the freedom. Yours is the talk of perfection. - With Love.
The life you live was lent to you by the owner and therefore when you make decisions, you must ask the owner.
If you've got wisdom, you have the strength to love, and the ability to acquire wealth!
Without a clear understanding of your purpose, life becomes an experiment!
For those celebrating thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving! For those who are traveling, here's wishing you safe journey. Have a blessed weekend!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him- Let it go!
You might claim to be busy...but God is never too busy to take care of you. It might seem there isn't a way out, nevertheless, I want you to hold on because you are a living testimony. That is why after the trial comes the victory, and then the freedom. Yours is the talk of perfection. - With Love.
The life you live was lent to you by the owner and therefore when you make decisions, you must ask the owner.
If you've got wisdom, you have the strength to love, and the ability to acquire wealth!
Without a clear understanding of your purpose, life becomes an experiment!
For those celebrating thanksgiving, Happy Thanksgiving! For those who are traveling, here's wishing you safe journey. Have a blessed weekend!
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Jokes- The Difference btw Advertising and Marketing
How's everyone doing? Here's something for the weekend... It was sent by a friend.
You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say:
"I am very rich. "Marry me!" - That's Direct Marketing..."
You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl.
One of your friends goes up to her, and pointing at you says:
"He's very rich."Marry him." -That's Advertising..."
See the difference...lol!
Have a great weekend.
You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say:
"I am very rich. "Marry me!" - That's Direct Marketing..."
You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl.
One of your friends goes up to her, and pointing at you says:
"He's very rich."Marry him." -That's Advertising..."
See the difference...lol!
Have a great weekend.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
There's No Gambling...with God.
It's a new month...September! Wishing all those born in September a prosperous year. Defining the act of gambling would be; "to take a risk in the hope of gaining an advantage or a benefit." - (Answers.com). And we all are guilty of gambling with God. We all engage in the act of gambling, although we engage in different forms of gambling. Even the 'unbelievers', when we come face to face with an unexpected situation like- staring death in the face, there is a tendency for us to begin gambling. The famous statement is 'God if you can save me from..., I would never do... again', we would start recounting how we would never steal, lie, or cheat, again: Or any other act or crime/offense we are guilty of committing. Just as 'unbelievers' are guilty of such act, we believers are not exempted from such practices.
We say 'God if you do this...for me, I would do this... in return'. Ever heard this statement before? Wouldn't be surprised you say it as much as your neighbor says it. It becomes a give and take experiment with God. Why can't we attempt to serve God in Spirit and in Truth? Be like Solomon, present the offering, be obedient, be a blessing unto others, and definitely God would do His part. It doesn't always have to be 'God do this for ME and then I would do this for YOU...after you must have given ME what I asked. Our relationship no longer becomes what it is suppose to be, it becomes a bank account where...the bank charges you for services rendered to your account. We only serve God in OUR convenient time. We only worship God when we feel He has done what we asked of Him. Sometimes we only serve Him when there is trouble and we need help, need a way out of our problems.
Expatiating on our relationship with our Creator as a 'bank account'- we would use a savings account to illustrate this relationship. For a savings account, the bank only adds interest to the account, at a certain percentage (this rate fluctuates), when we deposit money into the account. Therefore, God 'represents' the savings account (with all due respect), and we become the bank itself. We only give God our praises and gratitude when we 'feel' He has added value to our life, or has done what we request of Him. And we begin to decide how much of our praises and gratitude we would give, depending on how big or 'small' the miracle is.
After all is said and done; We all our guilty of gambling with God in our different ways...
However, He is a merciful and just God, so He provides us with chances...
The verdict is; Thou shall not gamble with God your creator!
Reminder: Present yourself humbly before Him, serve Him in truth and He would do His part...
A wise man had this to say about gambling..."It is the child of avarice, the brother of iniquity, and the father of mischief." - George Washington.
Take care, Adios!
We say 'God if you do this...for me, I would do this... in return'. Ever heard this statement before? Wouldn't be surprised you say it as much as your neighbor says it. It becomes a give and take experiment with God. Why can't we attempt to serve God in Spirit and in Truth? Be like Solomon, present the offering, be obedient, be a blessing unto others, and definitely God would do His part. It doesn't always have to be 'God do this for ME and then I would do this for YOU...after you must have given ME what I asked. Our relationship no longer becomes what it is suppose to be, it becomes a bank account where...the bank charges you for services rendered to your account. We only serve God in OUR convenient time. We only worship God when we feel He has done what we asked of Him. Sometimes we only serve Him when there is trouble and we need help, need a way out of our problems.
Expatiating on our relationship with our Creator as a 'bank account'- we would use a savings account to illustrate this relationship. For a savings account, the bank only adds interest to the account, at a certain percentage (this rate fluctuates), when we deposit money into the account. Therefore, God 'represents' the savings account (with all due respect), and we become the bank itself. We only give God our praises and gratitude when we 'feel' He has added value to our life, or has done what we request of Him. And we begin to decide how much of our praises and gratitude we would give, depending on how big or 'small' the miracle is.
After all is said and done; We all our guilty of gambling with God in our different ways...
However, He is a merciful and just God, so He provides us with chances...
The verdict is; Thou shall not gamble with God your creator!
Reminder: Present yourself humbly before Him, serve Him in truth and He would do His part...
A wise man had this to say about gambling..."It is the child of avarice, the brother of iniquity, and the father of mischief." - George Washington.
Take care, Adios!
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Liken Marriage 2 a Hsemate...
You surprised at the comparison? Or you wondering how would anyone compare marriage to a house mate? Lately discussions about marriage and problems in marriages have been coming up, she's been reading forums and articles about marriage and every argument that comes with it. It becomes interesting to know that different people have different say about this topic. However, the aim here is not to try to convince anyone that marriage is without it's problems, neither is it an outlet to lay blame on people about how they default in building strong relationships. No! it's not. Notwithstanding, we would only be using the concept of a house mate to shed more light on this symbolic issue of marriage (if there is any such phrase...lol!).
No one ever said marriage is without it's issues but it seems people stress the problems or situations that surface in marriages. As individuals we have our issues, our flaws but yet we have family and friends that accept us for who we are. This also applies to marriage, we all know marriage is a union between a husband and his wife (generally, not placing a religious criteria). When you move in with a house mate, sometimes you guyz could become so close that you become the best of friends, and sometimes, people mistake you for siblings (assuming same gender or background). Prior to moving in you have your flaws but this is over looked by the house mate (if the above statement applies) and you're sometimes able to reach a compromise. It's similar with marriage, because your partner accepts you for you, with your flaws and differences in opinions, yet that does not disrupt the growth of the relationship.
However, if you have a house mate were either one can not stand the sight of the other, then living could become difficult. Similarly in marriage, if both partners are not compatible that could cause a big problem in the relationship. As a result, it becomes an issue of leaving the marriage, if one is not exactly an advocate of divorce (that's subjective). Unlike were with the house mate, you could decide to move out or have a change of house mates. Marriage isn't a bed of roses, it does come with it's own issues because it's no longer just an individual but two of them working to build their relationship. And as with a compatible house mate you both could be best friends for life. Just as with marriage, if you're able to make it work, then you grow stronger. At this junction your vows manifest itself...
"For better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do you part!"- Even in death you probably still would love the person (can't exactly tell you how that works!). It's been great having you around, take care. Arrivederci!!!
No one ever said marriage is without it's issues but it seems people stress the problems or situations that surface in marriages. As individuals we have our issues, our flaws but yet we have family and friends that accept us for who we are. This also applies to marriage, we all know marriage is a union between a husband and his wife (generally, not placing a religious criteria). When you move in with a house mate, sometimes you guyz could become so close that you become the best of friends, and sometimes, people mistake you for siblings (assuming same gender or background). Prior to moving in you have your flaws but this is over looked by the house mate (if the above statement applies) and you're sometimes able to reach a compromise. It's similar with marriage, because your partner accepts you for you, with your flaws and differences in opinions, yet that does not disrupt the growth of the relationship.
However, if you have a house mate were either one can not stand the sight of the other, then living could become difficult. Similarly in marriage, if both partners are not compatible that could cause a big problem in the relationship. As a result, it becomes an issue of leaving the marriage, if one is not exactly an advocate of divorce (that's subjective). Unlike were with the house mate, you could decide to move out or have a change of house mates. Marriage isn't a bed of roses, it does come with it's own issues because it's no longer just an individual but two of them working to build their relationship. And as with a compatible house mate you both could be best friends for life. Just as with marriage, if you're able to make it work, then you grow stronger. At this junction your vows manifest itself...
"For better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do you part!"- Even in death you probably still would love the person (can't exactly tell you how that works!). It's been great having you around, take care. Arrivederci!!!
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Poem - Connection
I feel every bit of connection
As it lights up every fire
Without experiencing any distraction
Echoing for every bit of my desire
Seeping through the inner parts of my vein
Just as it had been ordained
All I should have ever maintained.
Like someone in pain.
When I suddenly felt lost
I found myself at no cost
Waiting anxiously to be helped home
It felt more comfortable than ever
As though I lived in Rome
I promised to stay forever.
As it lights up every fire
Without experiencing any distraction
Echoing for every bit of my desire
Seeping through the inner parts of my vein
Just as it had been ordained
All I should have ever maintained.
Like someone in pain.
When I suddenly felt lost
I found myself at no cost
Waiting anxiously to be helped home
It felt more comfortable than ever
As though I lived in Rome
I promised to stay forever.
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Opinion Matters...
Wheew! Ok, this is the 20th post and boi do I thank God for strength! This post is titled opinion matters cause our readers' opinions matter a lot. Every once in a while, we would be having 'opinion matters' based on different topics or questions. It could be general questions, it could be a problem a reader is seeking other readers' opinion on: Whatever the case may be, all your opinions matter. And they are greatly appreciated. We all have different perspectives on things, most issues have a subjective point of view, thereby resulting in different points of view. It is interesting to hear what each of us have to say about different things. So drop the comments, opinions, views and even your sentiments...you're welcomed!
Merci!
Q: What does life mean to you? [the essence of life].
Merci!
Q: What does life mean to you? [the essence of life].
Monday, July 28, 2008
Pictures Speak!
Sydney, Australia.
Caracas, Venezuela
Cuzco, Peru
Frankfurt, Germany
Rome, Italy
Vancouver, British Columbia (Canada)
Lagos, Nigeria (when NEPA/PHCN hasn't struck)
Lagos, Nigeria (after NEPA/PHCN has struck)...lolHad a splendid weekend? Looking forward to starting a new week? Aiight, we are looking at something different this week, and she hopes this worked out. Mostly especially because this is the first trial as you might have guessed. We all know that pictures speak louder than words themselves. Looking at a picture gives different meanings to different people. So if you get the hang of this that would be nice. This was inspired by Linda's blog which she (this blog's author) happens to read frequently...Hope you got the underlying message! Take care y'all.
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Ur Tongue!
3 weeks and counting, guilty or not guilty? So what have we all been going through? More like how are you doing? Hope your weekend went well? The tongue is a small part of our body but, it is very powerful. The tongue is small but mighty. Most of us are guilty of using our tongue as we please. We use our tongue(s) to bless and curse others. Us humans have to learn to tame our tongue. Not being able to tame our tongue could get us into a lot of trouble. And trust, trouble comes in different shapes, forms and sizes. To tame one's tongue is to have the ability to easily manage or handle one's tongue- the things we say.
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" [Proverbs 18: 21]. Think about it. Arrivederci!
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" [Proverbs 18: 21]. Think about it. Arrivederci!
Sunday, June 29, 2008
A Reminder...
Life has got no duplicate, so do what you can, when you can and how best you can. Life is too short for you to keep grudges with others. It's too short for you to 'sweat the small things- stuff'. Be grateful for the life you have. Show your gratitude by making a difference while you are alive.
BTW: Thank you Easier, and all other websites that have been sending traffic to this page. She appreciates each and every one of you. Gracias!
BTW: Thank you Easier, and all other websites that have been sending traffic to this page. She appreciates each and every one of you. Gracias!
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Forwarded Messages- The Funeral
Hey y'all, how are you preparing for the new week? Today's article was sent to me by one of my big sisters' at church. It's a forward, of which most of us get them, but sometimes delete them. That's another discussion for another day, because she's guilty of this 'crime'. Read with meaning...
"One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big sign on the door on which was written: 'Yesterday, the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym. In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself. The excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room. The more people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up.
Everyone thought: 'Who is this guy who was hindering my progress? Well, atleast he died!'
One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked inside it, they suddenly became speechless. They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul. There was a mirror inside the coffin, everyone who looked inside could see a reflection of him or herself. There was also a sign next to the mirror that said: 'There is only one person who is capable of setting limits to your growth: IT IS YOU!!!'
Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your husband or wife change, when your company changes, when your church changes, when your location changes, when your money changes, when your status changes...
Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs. Examine yourself, watch yourself. Don't be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities and losses. Be a winner, build yourself and your reality. It's the way you face Life that makes the difference!"
Remember we all fall, but it's the way we get up that really matters- that's what counts.
She's working on it...Are you doing the same?
"One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big sign on the door on which was written: 'Yesterday, the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym. In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself. The excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room. The more people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up.
Everyone thought: 'Who is this guy who was hindering my progress? Well, atleast he died!'
One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked inside it, they suddenly became speechless. They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul. There was a mirror inside the coffin, everyone who looked inside could see a reflection of him or herself. There was also a sign next to the mirror that said: 'There is only one person who is capable of setting limits to your growth: IT IS YOU!!!'
Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your husband or wife change, when your company changes, when your church changes, when your location changes, when your money changes, when your status changes...
Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs. Examine yourself, watch yourself. Don't be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities and losses. Be a winner, build yourself and your reality. It's the way you face Life that makes the difference!"
Remember we all fall, but it's the way we get up that really matters- that's what counts.
She's working on it...Are you doing the same?
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Dads'
Yeehaa! Happy Father's day to all the dads in the house! Teaching and bringing up your children in the right way is very important. The rate of children who don't know their fathers is on the increase. It's high time father's take responsibility and play an active role in their children's lives. Every child has a father: But there is a difference between when a child has a 'biological' father and when the child acknowledges the father as his or her father. The 'biological' father would always be the father of the child, that's a title that can never be taken away. But the father's actions and his proof of responsibility determines if the father exist to the child.
Every man who is a father can make a difference (positive difference) in his child's life. A big thank you to all father's who have taken care of their responsibilities without shoving it aside. We also believe that the fathers who are yet to take up their responsibilities would come around and know that there's no joy that can be compared to, when a man trains his child and the child succeeds in life. When you make a difference in your child's life and the child is able to acknowledge you as his or her father, the way your child sees you is all that matters and not how the world sees or describes you. Your child would probably pray this kind of prayer:
"One night a father overheard his son pray: Dear God, Make me the kind of man my Daddy is. Later that night, the Father prayed, Dear God, Make me the kind of man my son wants me to be."- Source Withheld
Take care and see you around...
Every man who is a father can make a difference (positive difference) in his child's life. A big thank you to all father's who have taken care of their responsibilities without shoving it aside. We also believe that the fathers who are yet to take up their responsibilities would come around and know that there's no joy that can be compared to, when a man trains his child and the child succeeds in life. When you make a difference in your child's life and the child is able to acknowledge you as his or her father, the way your child sees you is all that matters and not how the world sees or describes you. Your child would probably pray this kind of prayer:
"One night a father overheard his son pray: Dear God, Make me the kind of man my Daddy is. Later that night, the Father prayed, Dear God, Make me the kind of man my son wants me to be."- Source Withheld
Take care and see you around...
Monday, June 9, 2008
Encouraging Others...
Passed deadline again! On the bright side, how did the weekend go? Celebrations for Father's day seems to have begun. This piece is sent out to encourage you all. We all need encouragement once in a while. Just as we have every right and privilege {privilege because you are alive} to dream- to have a vision in life, it's also your responsibility to fulfill those dreams.
You've come a long way for you to give up now. Your dreams are not just about you, they are for others because whatever you become in life would one way or another affect or impact others. You are too great to allow your dreams go down the drain. If you don't achieve your dreams no one else would achieve it for you. People sometimes might have the same dream, but because every individual is unique, the dreams are also unique. You can do it, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Your time is your life, make something of it. We all laze around sometimes saying 'there's no time', you never have time except you create the time. For instance, we go to work because we have created time out to be able to go to work, if we didn't create the time, {since your schedule equals time}, we wouldn't be at work. Get the drift? Those who made their mark in life, didn't make it because they gave up on their dreams, they became successful because they were determined to persevere and they worked hard. They aren't extraordinary people, they are ordinary people just like you but doing extraordinary things. Dreams fulfilled means inspiring others, to inspire others you have to inspire yourself first. You never know you can do something unless you give it a try...
Would leave you with this quote by Henry David Thoreau- "I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavours to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."
...'the life he or she has imagined', referring to 'imagined' as your dreams. Don't give up, you have come too far to throw in the towel now. Remember delay is not denial...there's a difference. Adios, amigos!
You've come a long way for you to give up now. Your dreams are not just about you, they are for others because whatever you become in life would one way or another affect or impact others. You are too great to allow your dreams go down the drain. If you don't achieve your dreams no one else would achieve it for you. People sometimes might have the same dream, but because every individual is unique, the dreams are also unique. You can do it, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Your time is your life, make something of it. We all laze around sometimes saying 'there's no time', you never have time except you create the time. For instance, we go to work because we have created time out to be able to go to work, if we didn't create the time, {since your schedule equals time}, we wouldn't be at work. Get the drift? Those who made their mark in life, didn't make it because they gave up on their dreams, they became successful because they were determined to persevere and they worked hard. They aren't extraordinary people, they are ordinary people just like you but doing extraordinary things. Dreams fulfilled means inspiring others, to inspire others you have to inspire yourself first. You never know you can do something unless you give it a try...
Would leave you with this quote by Henry David Thoreau- "I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavours to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."
...'the life he or she has imagined', referring to 'imagined' as your dreams. Don't give up, you have come too far to throw in the towel now. Remember delay is not denial...there's a difference. Adios, amigos!
Monday, June 2, 2008
'Appreciating- Our Readers on a Deeper Level'
Brethren, we are gathered here in...u know the rest...lol. This is the 13th issue and it's going to be dedicated to each one of you- our readers. You being here makes a difference, it makes her feel fulfilled. A reader doesn't have to leave comments before she knows the write-ups were read. She really appreciates the comments and the time you take in visiting her blog. Being that you could have done something else within that time frame but you decided to read her blog. Which she is grateful for and hopes it inspires you all.
Her apologizes because in writing this, she realizes that this post is late: Since usually the post is put up by Sunday. Would use this means to say 'Happy Birthday' to everyone celebrating their birthday this month. May everything you lay your hands on prosper. It's a new month and we all have hopes and dreams, and some changes that needs to be made. So let's get to work! As you know 'time waits for no man'. Moreover, why procrastinate or delay what you can do now till later.
In addition to that, if you have any suggestions about the layout of this blog please let it be known. All suggestions, reviews and opinions are appreciated. If you have something you want to put up, you are free to mail her- author of the blog {contact on 'profile'}. One more thing, if you have a topic you would like her to write about or you need to know other reader's opinion on, please let her know. She would be glad to hear from you. Have an amazing week ahead. The week is full of surprises, make sure to make the best use of the opportunities that come(s) your way. Ciao!
Her apologizes because in writing this, she realizes that this post is late: Since usually the post is put up by Sunday. Would use this means to say 'Happy Birthday' to everyone celebrating their birthday this month. May everything you lay your hands on prosper. It's a new month and we all have hopes and dreams, and some changes that needs to be made. So let's get to work! As you know 'time waits for no man'. Moreover, why procrastinate or delay what you can do now till later.
In addition to that, if you have any suggestions about the layout of this blog please let it be known. All suggestions, reviews and opinions are appreciated. If you have something you want to put up, you are free to mail her- author of the blog {contact on 'profile'}. One more thing, if you have a topic you would like her to write about or you need to know other reader's opinion on, please let her know. She would be glad to hear from you. Have an amazing week ahead. The week is full of surprises, make sure to make the best use of the opportunities that come(s) your way. Ciao!
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Quote: Meditation.
Hello people! How's your weekend been? She hopes no one is getting tired...lol, don't let the stress get to you. We can always find something positive out of a trying situation. What do you think? There would be no article, or write-up today. She would be putting up a quote, and hopes it's a source of inspiration to you all. She really does appreciate your efforts and time sacrificed to reading this blog. May you be successful in all your endeavours. Many people have come across this quote before but, she would love you to give a new meaning to the quote: Pretty much meditate on the quote.
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us, it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
- Marianne Williamson.
It's been great having you around and being able to share with you. Have an excellent week and make sure you do something different {this week}. By different she means something positive. Be safe my friends. Cheers!
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us, it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
- Marianne Williamson.
It's been great having you around and being able to share with you. Have an excellent week and make sure you do something different {this week}. By different she means something positive. Be safe my friends. Cheers!
Saturday, May 17, 2008
The Abuser Isn't More Privileged!
LA was less than eight years of age when it all began. At that time, she never thought the pain would ever end. That someday what she was going through would come to a halt and become a thing of her past. Her past... Ever pondered on how things happen to us and it feels we would never survive the situation? Yer, we are in the same boat. But you did come out of that situation didn't you? Or maybe you are still in that situation. Remember the famous saying 'what wouldn't kill you would only make you stronger'. If you had told LA that years ago she would have told you that's impossible, or better still, she would have said the person was out of her mind. Sometimes it's difficult to agree that the mess you went through {or are going through} would later become your message. Your mess over the ages- a period of time, becomes your message. LA's abuser weighed nothing less than 300pounds {136.4kg}, while she herself weighed nothing more than 70pounds {31.8kg}. Shocked? Yes she did survive it, it was hard...the days she couldn't breathe, and the nights she cried.
LA is just one out of numerous people who have been abused {or are being abused}. Your abuser is not more privileged than you are. Given the situation, it seems the abuser possesses more power than his or her victim, but you can't allow your abuser take advantage of that. You are more powerful than you can imagine. You can free yourself from whatever abusive situation you might have found yourself in. For those who are still hanging on to their past, you can set yourself free by taking control of the situation: That's what determines your victory over an abusive situation. When someone is abused and the individual doesn't let go of such tragic event, the individual is allowing the abuser have a hold over him or her. Subsequently, men suffer abuse just as women suffer abuse. Difference is, the number of abused women are higher than abused men. More so, very few abused individuals open up about their situations. Telling someone {not just anyone}, someone who you trust helps. Most importantly, you have to know that you are not alone, and there are people who God has placed around you to be of help. There are also services available to help people who have been abused.
You've been abused doesn't mean you are worthless. It doesn't make you a weakling. You only become a weakling if you allow the situation take complete control over your life. If you allow that, then depression sets in and if care is not taken, you begin to contemplate suicide. You are greater than that, your potentials can't lay to waste because you've once suffered abuse! Moreover you are wonderfully and fearfully made. If you don't put your potentials to use who would? If you allow your abuser have a hold over you then you aren't living your life. As a result, it becomes difficult to see the greatness in you. It's time to take control of every abusive situation and relationship. Your reviews and comments are appreciated. Take care and hope to see you around next week. Au Revoir!
LA is just one out of numerous people who have been abused {or are being abused}. Your abuser is not more privileged than you are. Given the situation, it seems the abuser possesses more power than his or her victim, but you can't allow your abuser take advantage of that. You are more powerful than you can imagine. You can free yourself from whatever abusive situation you might have found yourself in. For those who are still hanging on to their past, you can set yourself free by taking control of the situation: That's what determines your victory over an abusive situation. When someone is abused and the individual doesn't let go of such tragic event, the individual is allowing the abuser have a hold over him or her. Subsequently, men suffer abuse just as women suffer abuse. Difference is, the number of abused women are higher than abused men. More so, very few abused individuals open up about their situations. Telling someone {not just anyone}, someone who you trust helps. Most importantly, you have to know that you are not alone, and there are people who God has placed around you to be of help. There are also services available to help people who have been abused.
You've been abused doesn't mean you are worthless. It doesn't make you a weakling. You only become a weakling if you allow the situation take complete control over your life. If you allow that, then depression sets in and if care is not taken, you begin to contemplate suicide. You are greater than that, your potentials can't lay to waste because you've once suffered abuse! Moreover you are wonderfully and fearfully made. If you don't put your potentials to use who would? If you allow your abuser have a hold over you then you aren't living your life. As a result, it becomes difficult to see the greatness in you. It's time to take control of every abusive situation and relationship. Your reviews and comments are appreciated. Take care and hope to see you around next week. Au Revoir!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Mum- You Are A Rare Gem.
For those in Canada, it's Mother's Day- 11th of May. Wishing all our irreplaceable mothers Happy Mother's Day. It's also Mother's Day in Australia, Belgium, Cuba, Ghana, Germany, Italy and the United States, to mention a few. On the other hand, countries such as Ireland, Nigeria and the United Kingdom already celebrated Mother's Day on March 2nd 2008. Still, wishing all mothers irrespective of their countries Happy Mother's Day. This is dedicated to the woman who gave birth to Iyanuloluwa and Oluwafunmibi, our mother, who is a huge part of our lives. First a daughter, then a sister, to some she's a niece to others an aunt, to some a mother and to others a friend and colleague. Most importantly, you are our mother- popularly called 'mummy'. Mothers we truly appreciate you all, it's our prayer never to let you down.
Mum,
You were the chosen one who birth us- your children into this world
For you, giving birth to us was not just another job you had to fulfill
Nurturing us to greater heights is your goal for all your children
Because with you, settling for less does not exist in your dictionary
You sacrifice time even when it seemed 'time' was running out
A mother's love- your love is irreplaceable
Sacrificing your time and money is just a fraction to the many things you sacrificed
Putting your dreams aside for a while to send us to the best of schools
Is never a problem for you
Giving has always been a big part of you
Your patience with us is beyond human imagination
You never hesitate to chastise us when we do something wrong
Just as you always encourage us and believe in us even when we didn't believe in ourselves
You truly are a rare gem
You have always been a source of inspiration, encouragement and strength to us your children
Your smile brightens the room just as your laughter is infectious and genuine
You teach us to be true to ourselves and never to live 'false' lives
Words to describe you and your qualities are very limited
You never condemned us when we did everything wrong
'In your eyes we do no wrong, even though in reality we do everything wrong'
It's great having a friend in you, even greater having you as our mother.
Señora Phygina Tolulope, you are indeed a Virtuous woman- a woman of inestimable value. It's a privilege having you as our mother. We your children are honored to know you as mother. May you enjoy the good fruits of your labour. You are priceless. You are a very strong woman. And you are a source [to the glory of God] of inspiration to many. May God grant us many more years of celebration {with you} in Jesus name.
Mum you're the BEST!
With Love...{Iyanuloluwa and Oluwafunmibi}
Mum,
You were the chosen one who birth us- your children into this world
For you, giving birth to us was not just another job you had to fulfill
Nurturing us to greater heights is your goal for all your children
Because with you, settling for less does not exist in your dictionary
You sacrifice time even when it seemed 'time' was running out
A mother's love- your love is irreplaceable
Sacrificing your time and money is just a fraction to the many things you sacrificed
Putting your dreams aside for a while to send us to the best of schools
Is never a problem for you
Giving has always been a big part of you
Your patience with us is beyond human imagination
You never hesitate to chastise us when we do something wrong
Just as you always encourage us and believe in us even when we didn't believe in ourselves
You truly are a rare gem
You have always been a source of inspiration, encouragement and strength to us your children
Your smile brightens the room just as your laughter is infectious and genuine
You teach us to be true to ourselves and never to live 'false' lives
Words to describe you and your qualities are very limited
You never condemned us when we did everything wrong
'In your eyes we do no wrong, even though in reality we do everything wrong'
It's great having a friend in you, even greater having you as our mother.
Señora Phygina Tolulope, you are indeed a Virtuous woman- a woman of inestimable value. It's a privilege having you as our mother. We your children are honored to know you as mother. May you enjoy the good fruits of your labour. You are priceless. You are a very strong woman. And you are a source [to the glory of God] of inspiration to many. May God grant us many more years of celebration {with you} in Jesus name.
Mum you're the BEST!
With Love...{Iyanuloluwa and Oluwafunmibi}
Sunday, May 4, 2008
NEGATIVITY- An Obstacle
To all faithful and new readers she says a big thank you. What's that 'thing' you keep hoping to fulfill someday? Sky diving? Helping the under privileged? Owning a multinational corporation? Preaching the gospel and reaching out to people? Being the next President? Or buying the latest Mercedes Benz SLK55 AMG? For some, don't be surprised, maybe it's being a 'celebrity'...just make sure you make a positive difference as one. We all have dreams, hopes as well as aspirations and they take a lot of hard work and perseverance to be accomplished. But we also have obstacles which seem to prevent us from accomplishing our dreams. We have mountains that seem too rigid to be moved. Don't forget that in the midst of all this, there are people who fulfill their dreams, people who make the difference they always dreamed of. What did they do to get to where they are? Are your dreams so difficult in fulfilling that you are willing to let go of them?
Answers.com describes an obstacle as "one that opposes, stand in the way of, or holds up progress". An obstacle could be seen as a blockage, an hindrance, a barricade, an hurdle, a wall or an obstruction, to mention a few [it's your pick]. Negativity happens to be a form of obstacle, negativity could come in the form of 'friends', professors, family members, course mates, colleagues and supervisors [for those of us who work].
Did you know the biggest form of negativity comes in the beautiful and admirable shape of you [including the author of this blog], no exceptions made. You are thinking, how's that possible? She'll tell you...Although it does sound like she's in conflict with the words by placing negativity with 'beautiful' and 'admirable', it's a deliberate effort. The reason for this is, we always encounter people who send negative 'vibes'. People who discourage us and tell us we can't make it in life, people who seem to have taken 'discouraging others' as a part time or seasonal job. Not full time because they engage in other activities: Being that they are humans like we are. Note, there are people who think sometimes we should not engage in certain things because they might cause our downfall, we are not referring to this set of people. She is focusing on people who every time you tell them joyful things or share an excellent idea with them, they are fast to tell you what is wrong with that idea and that it's impossible to fulfill such a dream.
Now that said, as much as we have people who are very negative about things, we ourselves contribute to how dreams are fulfilled. Sometimes we have people around us telling us we can do it, we can fulfill our dreams, people who take their time to intercede {pray} for us, people who are ready to catch us when we fall and are ready to push us further. Because they trust in our abilities and see how great we can be if only we persevere. At this junction, from within we create obstacles by saying and believing we can't accomplish these dreams. When this happens, it becomes difficult to be determined or to work hard in fulfilling these dreams. In this your not alone, professing that you can and will, is the first step to destroying this obstacle called negativity. Working hard and putting words into action(s) becomes the effective tool in removing the mountain- obstacle completely.
As we go forth in this new week- a week full of opportunities, consider this and work with more positive people. Having a positive approach to life- as you begin to put action(s) to your words.
"The obstacles you face are...mental barriers which can be broken by adopting a more positive approach."- Clarence Blasier
It's a long one, but she is glad you made it to the end. Merci!
Answers.com describes an obstacle as "one that opposes, stand in the way of, or holds up progress". An obstacle could be seen as a blockage, an hindrance, a barricade, an hurdle, a wall or an obstruction, to mention a few [it's your pick]. Negativity happens to be a form of obstacle, negativity could come in the form of 'friends', professors, family members, course mates, colleagues and supervisors [for those of us who work].
Did you know the biggest form of negativity comes in the beautiful and admirable shape of you [including the author of this blog], no exceptions made. You are thinking, how's that possible? She'll tell you...Although it does sound like she's in conflict with the words by placing negativity with 'beautiful' and 'admirable', it's a deliberate effort. The reason for this is, we always encounter people who send negative 'vibes'. People who discourage us and tell us we can't make it in life, people who seem to have taken 'discouraging others' as a part time or seasonal job. Not full time because they engage in other activities: Being that they are humans like we are. Note, there are people who think sometimes we should not engage in certain things because they might cause our downfall, we are not referring to this set of people. She is focusing on people who every time you tell them joyful things or share an excellent idea with them, they are fast to tell you what is wrong with that idea and that it's impossible to fulfill such a dream.
Now that said, as much as we have people who are very negative about things, we ourselves contribute to how dreams are fulfilled. Sometimes we have people around us telling us we can do it, we can fulfill our dreams, people who take their time to intercede {pray} for us, people who are ready to catch us when we fall and are ready to push us further. Because they trust in our abilities and see how great we can be if only we persevere. At this junction, from within we create obstacles by saying and believing we can't accomplish these dreams. When this happens, it becomes difficult to be determined or to work hard in fulfilling these dreams. In this your not alone, professing that you can and will, is the first step to destroying this obstacle called negativity. Working hard and putting words into action(s) becomes the effective tool in removing the mountain- obstacle completely.
As we go forth in this new week- a week full of opportunities, consider this and work with more positive people. Having a positive approach to life- as you begin to put action(s) to your words.
"The obstacles you face are...mental barriers which can be broken by adopting a more positive approach."- Clarence Blasier
It's a long one, but she is glad you made it to the end. Merci!
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Ponder: 4 Ur Thgts.
Hola! Would leave you with something to ponder on as you journey through this new week. Being aware that with every new week there are new deadlines to meet. New goals that are set and waiting to be achieved; Make sure not to quit trying until you accomplish these goals. Don't give up on yourself. It's dangerous not to believe in one's self. Let's consider the following definitions;
Love is sacrifice- anonymous to giving.
Lust is selfishness- anonymous to collecting.
Patience is a great virtue {a fruit of the spirit}- comes with a great reward.
Faith- is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen {Hebrews 11: 1}.
Anger- a deadly disease, that makes us unaware of our senses
{Knowing that what one destroys within the moment they get angry is more than what caused their anger}.
Pride- a deteriorating factor which leads to destruction.
Procrastination- delaying what you can do now till later {is the 'stealer' of time, a smotherer of dreams}.
Trust- a factor, a relevant element which every true relationship should have {trusting God is the ultimate}.
We all go through difficult times and sometimes it seems endless. For those who don't already know, suicide does not solve the problem. If anything it adds to it, it compounds the problem of the family that has been left behind. Running from a problem does not solve it, facing the problem does. And it makes the person stronger. In life when you fall, get up, stand and move on.
"Action conquers fear"- Peter Nivio Zarlenga.
It has been great having you around. Hope to see you next week, have a wonderful week ahead.
Love is sacrifice- anonymous to giving.
Lust is selfishness- anonymous to collecting.
Patience is a great virtue {a fruit of the spirit}- comes with a great reward.
Faith- is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen {Hebrews 11: 1}.
Anger- a deadly disease, that makes us unaware of our senses
{Knowing that what one destroys within the moment they get angry is more than what caused their anger}.
Pride- a deteriorating factor which leads to destruction.
Procrastination- delaying what you can do now till later {is the 'stealer' of time, a smotherer of dreams}.
Trust- a factor, a relevant element which every true relationship should have {trusting God is the ultimate}.
We all go through difficult times and sometimes it seems endless. For those who don't already know, suicide does not solve the problem. If anything it adds to it, it compounds the problem of the family that has been left behind. Running from a problem does not solve it, facing the problem does. And it makes the person stronger. In life when you fall, get up, stand and move on.
"Action conquers fear"- Peter Nivio Zarlenga.
It has been great having you around. Hope to see you next week, have a wonderful week ahead.
Sunday, April 20, 2008
RESPECT- Mister!
What have you been up to? Busy week? Hope you were able to rest this weekend. It's back to work this week. It's the beginning of a new week so we hope and pray for a fresh start. Right, let's get to today's topic. This one goes out to our fellas;
Scenario 1:
Smith goes out with his girlfriend to a function [occasion], at the function Smith meets another lady who he starts a conversation with. Smith ignores his girlfriend because he is talking to this other lady.
Scenario 2:
George constantly beats his fiancée every time he's upset.
Scenario 3:
Marvin's wife cooks his meals, does his laundry and keeps the house clean. Marvin never says 'thank you'. He treats his wife more like a slave than a companion.
What do you think of these three scenarios? Respect is the willingness to show consideration or appreciation. For now she would be focusing on our fellas in this episode. For a relationship to exist there must be two parties involved. Both parties have to [aside all other things] respect each other. As we are well aware, not all guys respect their partners- your partner being your girlfriend, fiancée or wife. The saying is, "the way a guy treats his mother is the way he would treat his wife"; Or girlfriend as the case maybe. Every lady deserves some form of respect from her man. She wouldn't be telling you how to show your partner you appreciate her, that's up to you fellas to decide. But it goes a long way to describe your personality when you appreciate your lady. In denotative meaning, respect is an attitude of admiration or esteem. Showing respect to your partner implies that, not only do you appreciate her, but you appreciate your relationship with her and you're willing to make your relationship work. To respect someone is to care, without respect you don't have a relationship.
To love is to respect, to respect is to hold your companion- your ladies in high esteem. Arnold H. Glasow said "the respect of those you respect is worth more than the applause of the multitude". Reflect on this Señor- let your actions speak louder than your words. Take care. Hasta luego!
Scenario 1:
Smith goes out with his girlfriend to a function [occasion], at the function Smith meets another lady who he starts a conversation with. Smith ignores his girlfriend because he is talking to this other lady.
Scenario 2:
George constantly beats his fiancée every time he's upset.
Scenario 3:
Marvin's wife cooks his meals, does his laundry and keeps the house clean. Marvin never says 'thank you'. He treats his wife more like a slave than a companion.
What do you think of these three scenarios? Respect is the willingness to show consideration or appreciation. For now she would be focusing on our fellas in this episode. For a relationship to exist there must be two parties involved. Both parties have to [aside all other things] respect each other. As we are well aware, not all guys respect their partners- your partner being your girlfriend, fiancée or wife. The saying is, "the way a guy treats his mother is the way he would treat his wife"; Or girlfriend as the case maybe. Every lady deserves some form of respect from her man. She wouldn't be telling you how to show your partner you appreciate her, that's up to you fellas to decide. But it goes a long way to describe your personality when you appreciate your lady. In denotative meaning, respect is an attitude of admiration or esteem. Showing respect to your partner implies that, not only do you appreciate her, but you appreciate your relationship with her and you're willing to make your relationship work. To respect someone is to care, without respect you don't have a relationship.
To love is to respect, to respect is to hold your companion- your ladies in high esteem. Arnold H. Glasow said "the respect of those you respect is worth more than the applause of the multitude". Reflect on this Señor- let your actions speak louder than your words. Take care. Hasta luego!
Saturday, April 12, 2008
A Poem- I'm Your Potential.
Success to all those preparing for exams. And to all workers, success in all your endeavours. Today she's going to do something different. She would be leaving you with something that she hopes would inspire you in a different dimension, positively of course. Before we unwrap our packages lets think back for a moment. What's your main purpose for living in this world. Is it known? And if yes, has it been fulfilled? Because as we all know the graveyard is filled with buried treasures. Are we utilizing our talents and potentials to the fullest? As you ponder on this, let's open our package for today.
I'm Your Potential
My name is your potential
I am all that you can be but not yet,
I am all that you can do but not yet done:
I was born the day you were born.
And I have being dying to meet you even though you didn't know me.
Interestingly, you've always known my twin brother:
His name is your limitation and I hate him so.
He says you can't do the things I know you can:
He says you can't be the things I know you can be,
But did you know that your limitation, is only my shadow.
And if you shine your light on me,
My shadow would disappear.
If you shine your light on me your limitation would disappear;
Why don't you shine your light on me today- now!
- Withheld Authorship
Your potential is what you are capable of doing and being but is not yet in existence. You alone have the power to utilize your potential. Moreover life would have no meaning if your potential were not fulfilled.
"With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world. "
-Dalai Lama.
A big thank you to all readers, those who have left comments, and those who have helped in one way or the other to promote this blog, to ensure it goes to greater heights. Her best prayers are with you. Welcome to the newcomers! Hope to see you around next week, God keeping us all. Keep in touch...Grazie!
I am all that you can be but not yet,
I am all that you can do but not yet done:
I was born the day you were born.
And I have being dying to meet you even though you didn't know me.
Interestingly, you've always known my twin brother:
His name is your limitation and I hate him so.
He says you can't do the things I know you can:
He says you can't be the things I know you can be,
But did you know that your limitation, is only my shadow.
And if you shine your light on me,
My shadow would disappear.
If you shine your light on me your limitation would disappear;
Why don't you shine your light on me today- now!
- Withheld Authorship
Your potential is what you are capable of doing and being but is not yet in existence. You alone have the power to utilize your potential. Moreover life would have no meaning if your potential were not fulfilled.
"With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world. "
-Dalai Lama.
A big thank you to all readers, those who have left comments, and those who have helped in one way or the other to promote this blog, to ensure it goes to greater heights. Her best prayers are with you. Welcome to the newcomers! Hope to see you around next week, God keeping us all. Keep in touch...Grazie!
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Confidence- Self Esteem...
Heyy! How's everyone doing? First, she would like to thank everyone for their views, reviews, opinions, comments and contributions. We are free to tell others about this blog. As we all know, our aim is to be there for others. That brings us to today's topic; it's one word or two, depending on how we see it, but our lives somewhat evolves around it. Let's invite no one else but Self- Esteem to the table. Most of us might wander, what's with self esteem? Actually, self esteem as some of us already know is a big deal. A high priced product in the market with very few buyers. Are you surprised? You shouldn't be. People tend to have issues with self esteem, yet all it wants to do is supply to those who demand. But you know you can't have, when you don't make an attempt at asking. She could describe confidence as trusting or having faith in someone or something. While on the other hand she would describe self-esteem as having pride in oneself; self respect. Self-respect would be the identical twin sibling to self-esteem. Since self-respect is described as 'due respect' for one's character, conduct and one's self.
American businessman and publisher Bertie Charles Forbes once said; "Without self-respect there can be no genuine success. Success won at the cost of self-respect is not success. For what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own self-respect." [For those of us who read the Bible the last part of the statement probably sounds familiar. Sounds like Mark 8: 36- "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?"]. Losing one's self-respect leads to losing one's self-esteem, which could be seen as losing one's soul. Losing one's self-respect is like losing one's worth or soul. There is no self-esteem without self-respect. Your self-respect builds up to create your self-esteem, which in turn makes you feel worthy. [Someone of worth]. Many people, many of us have issues with self-esteem. Some of us, many from our relationships, past or present, from abusive marriages, from feeling we have disappointed our parents, guardians or loved ones, to those of us who have done things we are not proud of. But you know, when you fall, the way you pick yourself up matters a lot.
Insteading of picking ourselves up and standing upright, some of us crawl- on all four, while some of us slouch, and for those of us who don't slouch, we drag our feets. Those who pick themselves, arise, stand up tall, heads up high, and walk majestically [note: no dragging of feet or oneself]; They not only picked themselves up, but to gain back their self-respect and self-worth, they did not allow their past [mistakes] determine their present, and of course their future. Thereby re-gaining their self esteem. Self-esteem is a very crucial part of our being.
Have a great week! Adios...
American businessman and publisher Bertie Charles Forbes once said; "Without self-respect there can be no genuine success. Success won at the cost of self-respect is not success. For what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own self-respect." [For those of us who read the Bible the last part of the statement probably sounds familiar. Sounds like Mark 8: 36- "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?"]. Losing one's self-respect leads to losing one's self-esteem, which could be seen as losing one's soul. Losing one's self-respect is like losing one's worth or soul. There is no self-esteem without self-respect. Your self-respect builds up to create your self-esteem, which in turn makes you feel worthy. [Someone of worth]. Many people, many of us have issues with self-esteem. Some of us, many from our relationships, past or present, from abusive marriages, from feeling we have disappointed our parents, guardians or loved ones, to those of us who have done things we are not proud of. But you know, when you fall, the way you pick yourself up matters a lot.
Insteading of picking ourselves up and standing upright, some of us crawl- on all four, while some of us slouch, and for those of us who don't slouch, we drag our feets. Those who pick themselves, arise, stand up tall, heads up high, and walk majestically [note: no dragging of feet or oneself]; They not only picked themselves up, but to gain back their self-respect and self-worth, they did not allow their past [mistakes] determine their present, and of course their future. Thereby re-gaining their self esteem. Self-esteem is a very crucial part of our being.
Have a great week! Adios...
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Let's Talk Abortion.
Happy Easter! to those of us who celebrate easter. Thank God for the resurrection. For those who believe in God, imagine where you would be now without Christ. Would we even be in existence? Aiight, so lets go to today's write-up. Abortion.
Everyone's got different views on abortion, a very controversial issue indeed. Philosophers get into debates about when it is too late to have an abortion, and the right-to-life. Philosophers' principles and values are based on logical reasoning rather than on empirical methods. Looking at the denotation- dictionary meaning, of abortion. Answers.com defines it as; " Termination of pregnancy and expulsion of an embryo or of a fetus that is incapable of survival." Just as there are various views on abortion, that's how various definitions of abortion exist.
Consequently, she would not be going in depth on this issue. She would be looking at it from a 'general' [subjective] point of view.When an abortion is carried out, doesn't the individual feel as if she is taking away a part of herself. It's true there are several reasons as to why people commit abortion. Not giving that fetus the chance of becoming a child, the right to life- to live. Limits your knowledge of what the child could have become if he or she was given life. The child is robbed of every chance of becoming someone great in future. Of actually having a purpose in life and fulfilling it. Imagine this...would you have been where you are today if your parents [mothers] had aborted you? I would love to hear our views on abortion, your comments are appreciated. May you be successful in all your endeavors. Below are some quotes to think about:
"But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child - a direct killing of the innocent child - murder by the mother herself. And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another? How do we persuade a woman not to have an abortion? As always, we must persuade her with love, and we remind ourselves that love means to be willing to give until it hurts. Jesus gave even his life to love us. So the mother who is thinking of abortion, should be helped to love - that is, to give until it hurts her plans, or her free time, to respect the life of her child. The father of that child, whoever he is, must also give until it hurts. By abortion, the mother does not learn to love, but kills even her own child to solve her problems. And by abortion, the father is told that he does not have to take any responsibility at all for the child he has brought into the world."
"The so-called right to abortion has pitted mothers against their children and women against men. It has sown violence and discord at the heart of the most intimate human relationships. It has aggravated the derogation of the father's role in an increasingly fatherless society. It has portrayed the greatest of gifts -- a child -- as a competitor, an intrusion, and an inconvenience. It has nominally accorded mothers unfettered dominion over the independent lives of their physically dependent sons and daughters"
"And, in granting this unconscionable power, it has exposed many women to unjust and selfish demands from their husbands or other sexual partners. Human rights are not a privilege conferred by government. They are every human being's entitlement by virtue of his humanity. The right to life does not depend, and must not be declared to be contingent, on the pleasure of anyone else, not even a parent or a sovereign." - Mother Teresa
To all the readers, thank you for being here. Remember the above view is subjective!
Everyone's got different views on abortion, a very controversial issue indeed. Philosophers get into debates about when it is too late to have an abortion, and the right-to-life. Philosophers' principles and values are based on logical reasoning rather than on empirical methods. Looking at the denotation- dictionary meaning, of abortion. Answers.com defines it as; " Termination of pregnancy and expulsion of an embryo or of a fetus that is incapable of survival." Just as there are various views on abortion, that's how various definitions of abortion exist.
Consequently, she would not be going in depth on this issue. She would be looking at it from a 'general' [subjective] point of view.When an abortion is carried out, doesn't the individual feel as if she is taking away a part of herself. It's true there are several reasons as to why people commit abortion. Not giving that fetus the chance of becoming a child, the right to life- to live. Limits your knowledge of what the child could have become if he or she was given life. The child is robbed of every chance of becoming someone great in future. Of actually having a purpose in life and fulfilling it. Imagine this...would you have been where you are today if your parents [mothers] had aborted you? I would love to hear our views on abortion, your comments are appreciated. May you be successful in all your endeavors. Below are some quotes to think about:
"But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child - a direct killing of the innocent child - murder by the mother herself. And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another? How do we persuade a woman not to have an abortion? As always, we must persuade her with love, and we remind ourselves that love means to be willing to give until it hurts. Jesus gave even his life to love us. So the mother who is thinking of abortion, should be helped to love - that is, to give until it hurts her plans, or her free time, to respect the life of her child. The father of that child, whoever he is, must also give until it hurts. By abortion, the mother does not learn to love, but kills even her own child to solve her problems. And by abortion, the father is told that he does not have to take any responsibility at all for the child he has brought into the world."
"The so-called right to abortion has pitted mothers against their children and women against men. It has sown violence and discord at the heart of the most intimate human relationships. It has aggravated the derogation of the father's role in an increasingly fatherless society. It has portrayed the greatest of gifts -- a child -- as a competitor, an intrusion, and an inconvenience. It has nominally accorded mothers unfettered dominion over the independent lives of their physically dependent sons and daughters"
"And, in granting this unconscionable power, it has exposed many women to unjust and selfish demands from their husbands or other sexual partners. Human rights are not a privilege conferred by government. They are every human being's entitlement by virtue of his humanity. The right to life does not depend, and must not be declared to be contingent, on the pleasure of anyone else, not even a parent or a sovereign." - Mother Teresa
To all the readers, thank you for being here. Remember the above view is subjective!
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Apologizes
She's very sorry for not updating much earlier. How has your day been? Or more like your week? She prays for strength to be faithful to this blog. Because sincerely this is not about her, it's about the women, the children, the rape victims, abused women, and genereally, the women and children who need someone to just care and listen to them. Knowing they can, as long as they have life, overcome their circumstances. Someone close to her once said: "You don't have no control over the past, but you have the power to control the present and the future!" Every now is the present, but builds up to be the future. The following quotes are for all of us to ponder on while we wait for our next post.
All women are: "A Virtuous Woman- A woman of inestimable value."
Every child: "Is a chosen generation, a royal priesthood and an holy nation"
Every child: "Is destined for greatness"
Every human: "In God's kingdom is priceless, because Jesus has paid the price for you"
Every man: "That findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord"
Every individual: "Has an opportunity of being saved, because in you God created a purpose"
She would leave it at that for now. Before she goes, she has a question to ask. Have you ever wandered what it feels like when you talk to someone and they refuse to listen? Hurt? Frustration? Impatience? Now you have your answer, have you ever loved someone and they did not reciprocate that love? How did you feel? Imagine how God feels!
Remember there is someone somewhere who loves and holds you dear to His heart. Have a fulfilled week ahead.
All women are: "A Virtuous Woman- A woman of inestimable value."
Every child: "Is a chosen generation, a royal priesthood and an holy nation"
Every child: "Is destined for greatness"
Every human: "In God's kingdom is priceless, because Jesus has paid the price for you"
Every man: "That findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord"
Every individual: "Has an opportunity of being saved, because in you God created a purpose"
She would leave it at that for now. Before she goes, she has a question to ask. Have you ever wandered what it feels like when you talk to someone and they refuse to listen? Hurt? Frustration? Impatience? Now you have your answer, have you ever loved someone and they did not reciprocate that love? How did you feel? Imagine how God feels!
Remember there is someone somewhere who loves and holds you dear to His heart. Have a fulfilled week ahead.
Thursday, February 21, 2008
Bullying- A Form of Physical Assault.
Hows it going? Been awhile, she apologizes for taking such a great amount of time in updating. Bullying has been in existence since man? For a very long time if you know what she means. For those who have been bullied, you can relate better. Bullying doesn't just happen and once it's done, the victim gets over it. Bullying as we all know has a lasting effect. In some [if not majority of the cases], the victim becomes bitter; Where this bitterness could grow into hatred and revenge takes its toll. Ever taken the time to ponder why some teenagers or some youths are so bitter? If you haven't, don't you think it's about time you consider it seriously. For we who have considered it, have we done anything to help? It's our responsibility to help! Even the least of persons we never expected [our closest friends, siblings or relations] could be battling this oppression and bitterness. How is it our responsibility?
When we know the root of problems or issues encountered in our environment, it's much easier to tackle it. Bitterness destroys, and most often destroys in cycles. Have you been to elementary school, high school or even college then you obviously know what it means to be bullied. Bullying occurs in any setting where we humans interact with each other. You might not have experienced bullying doesn't mean you are not aware that it does exist. Bullying is a form of harrasment used to show dominance over ones victim, it is intentionally causing unhappiness or harm to others. In most cases, the victims don't retaliate immediately. When they do, it could be a form of revenge taken out on the society.
Sitting back now, she reflects on her days in Grade 6, when she use to be bullied at school, she would be told to bring money to school, if she failed she knew what to expect when she got to school the next day. She never told anyone, maybe [afraid] that it would only get worse once her oppressors found out they had been exposed. She would be shoved amongst her oppressors, beaten and she got her hair pulled at. Kinda of funny to remember, but then it wasn't funny. If you have been bullied before, talking about it might be embarrassing but it helps a lot. No one deserves to be oppressed. It's time to say NO! to being oppressed.
Your comments and views would be appreciated. Have a wonderful day!
When we know the root of problems or issues encountered in our environment, it's much easier to tackle it. Bitterness destroys, and most often destroys in cycles. Have you been to elementary school, high school or even college then you obviously know what it means to be bullied. Bullying occurs in any setting where we humans interact with each other. You might not have experienced bullying doesn't mean you are not aware that it does exist. Bullying is a form of harrasment used to show dominance over ones victim, it is intentionally causing unhappiness or harm to others. In most cases, the victims don't retaliate immediately. When they do, it could be a form of revenge taken out on the society.
Sitting back now, she reflects on her days in Grade 6, when she use to be bullied at school, she would be told to bring money to school, if she failed she knew what to expect when she got to school the next day. She never told anyone, maybe [afraid] that it would only get worse once her oppressors found out they had been exposed. She would be shoved amongst her oppressors, beaten and she got her hair pulled at. Kinda of funny to remember, but then it wasn't funny. If you have been bullied before, talking about it might be embarrassing but it helps a lot. No one deserves to be oppressed. It's time to say NO! to being oppressed.
Your comments and views would be appreciated. Have a wonderful day!
Saturday, February 9, 2008
It's abt that time.
I guess she has finally decided to sum up the courage to tackle the issues at hand. I practically had to drag her all the way, how could someone be so stubborn? Ok, pretty obvious she's new at this, so she would need all the help she can get. Enuf with all the blabbin'. This is dedicated to women who have been abused and battered, the underprivileged children who have suffered. It's quiet unfortunate that living as one proves to be more difficult than we estimated. But we do understand that when we take a step in the right direction, take a step at a time, then we would be able to make progress. All women, no matter the race, the skin color, your shape or size, have you been abused before or battered or treated less than your worth, it's about time... Enough is enough! No woman deserves to be beaten, battered, abused [physically or otherwise]. So what do you want to do? Your destiny is in your hands. Aiight, she's said enough, probably even going round in circles. She would be back soon, more composed and well organized. Would make sure to share personal experiences with you. The main aim of being here is to lend a helping hand. Holla y'all.
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